My dear friend, when they told me you were gone, I couldn’t believe it. You were always so strong, so fierce, able to face anything that came your way. You couldn’t be gone. It was too soon. I have so many questions. We were supposed to get together, and you were going to share your stories. So many stories. You lived an interesting life, a challenging life. It wasn’t always easy. Sometimes you made it difficult, you could be hard to get along with, but you had a gentle side too. You loved as fiercely as you fought, and man, could you fight.

It was that fighting spirit that made me admire you. Whatever you got behind you put everything you had into it. This town, your friends and family know the beauty of your determination. We have been pulled into your schemes and plans.

When they told me you were gone, I couldn’t believe it. Even after all this time, I forget you’re gone. I reach for the phone wanting to tell you something, then remember you’re no longer here. Yet, you are everywhere. I see you in the little things and big, the croak of a frog or a brilliant sunset, in the gifts you gave and the stories you shared. Wherever you are, I hope you know the impact you had on my life. I miss you my friend, I’m sad that you are gone but I’m so thankful for the time we shared.

Remembering you on your birthday and sending good wishes wherever you are.